Silent Suzy

๐๐จ๐ญ ๐š๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ซ๐ข๐ฌ๐ค๐ฌ ๐ข๐ง ๐œ๐ก๐š๐ง๐ ๐ž ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐ฃ๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ฌ ๐œ๐จ๐ฆ๐ž ๐ฐ๐ข๐ญ๐ก ๐š ๐ฐ๐š๐ซ๐ง๐ข๐ง๐  ๐ฅ๐š๐›๐ž๐ฅ.

Change managers often focus on the โ€œsqueaky wheelsโ€ โ€” vocal stakeholders who loudly question changes or openly resist them. They can be demanding and challenging, but at least theyโ€™re visible. You know where they stand.

The real danger may be Silent Suzy. Silent Suzy nods politely, says little, or quietly steps back. Her silence isnโ€™t agreement. ๐€๐ญ ๐›๐ž๐ฌ๐ญ, ๐ข๐ญโ€™๐ฌ ๐š ๐ฆ๐ข๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ž๐ ๐จ๐ฉ๐ฉ๐จ๐ซ๐ญ๐ฎ๐ง๐ข๐ญ๐ฒโ€”๐ฏ๐š๐ฅ๐ฎ๐š๐›๐ฅ๐ž ๐œ๐จ๐ง๐œ๐ž๐ซ๐ง๐ฌ ๐ ๐จ ๐ฎ๐ง๐ก๐ž๐š๐ซ๐, ๐š๐ง๐ ๐ฌ๐ฆ๐š๐ซ๐ญ ๐ข๐ง๐ฌ๐ข๐ ๐ก๐ญ๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐š๐ฒ ๐ญ๐ฎ๐œ๐ค๐ž๐ ๐š๐ฐ๐š๐ฒ. Worse, the silence may hide passive resistance or active sabotage that will derail the change.

Engaging these quiet stakeholders takes extra effort. It means noticing who stays silent, asking them good questions, and listening for real understanding.

๐“๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ž๐ฑ๐ญ๐ซ๐š ๐ž๐Ÿ๐Ÿ๐จ๐ซ๐ญ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐œ๐ซ๐ฎ๐œ๐ข๐š๐ฅ – ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐จ๐›๐ฃ๐ž๐œ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎ ๐๐จ๐งโ€™๐ญ ๐ก๐ž๐š๐ซ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐จ๐Ÿ๐ญ๐ž๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐จ๐ง๐ž๐ฌ ๐ญ๐ก๐š๐ญ ๐ก๐ฎ๐ซ๐ญ ๐ญ๐ก๐ž ๐ฆ๐จ๐ฌ๐ญ.

How do you surface silent dissent before it becomes a roadblock?

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